Am I wrong for wanting my bf to pay me?

Question

If my bf offered to pay me for a job but doesn’t am I wrong? My bf has his own business but knew I had a week before I got hired (for the job I just got) and told me he would pay me like his other employees. He says now since I’m his girlfriend I shouldn’t expect that. I should help him out of love….am I wrong???

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Nope, he should keep his word. Being a girlfriend doesn’t justify not paying you for what was agreed on. That’s a red flag 🚩 I wouldn’t ignore it. 🥺 He’s showing you who he is believe him. I couldn’t trust a guy that’s justifying being shady af.

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He agreed to pay you, he should pay you. Business and being his GF is separate. If he wanted you to help for free, he should have said that before you actually did it. 
He needs to be a person of his word.

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He should value you as much as his other employees, if not more, out of RESPECT and love. I feel like this guy is highly emotionally manipulative....huge red flag that he even said that and did a bait and switch on you with a narcissistic guilt technique. I would find another job and end the relationship. When people show you who they are, believe them.

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That would be fine if you offered to help with no pay but that didnt happen.

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So he expects slave labour from you? Nah leave him and report him to the labour board.

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Tell him he can either pay you or you can move on from both the job and him. He’s giving you a peek of who he really is

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just get a new job then

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I wouldn’t expect someone I was in a serious relationship and saw a future with to pay me. But casual dating is a different story

Am I wrong for wanting my bf to pay me?

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