Is what my husband want to do normal?

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My husband and I have a healthy sex life, but he is eager to put a finger up my bum. At first I though he was joking but he suggests using lube and putting a finger in there. Is that normal? Has anyone else experienced this? I'm not so keen!

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If you’re not into it then tell him no. But butt play between consenting adults is completely normal

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Butt stuff is normal as long as both partners are down for it and comfortable with it. I’ve had multiple bfs want to do that lol if you wouldn’t want to try it just tell him you’re not comfortable with it.

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alot of people do butt stuff lmao yes it’s normal

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I think it's normal. But if you say you don't want that, that he needs to back off. Ask him if he wants you to do that instead. Maybe he's projecting a little because it's what he wants you to do.

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Absolutely normal. And can be really fun.

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He’s hoping to get you to agree to anal sex so he figured if she let me do a finger I can work my way up to anal

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It's normal to want to do something. It's not normal to keep harassing your partner to do something they don't want to do. You're not obligated to do any sex act you're not enthusiastic about.

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If this is something your not interested in trying then he needs to drop the subject! 
Maybe he should get a finger up the bum since he’s so intrigued by the thrill of it! 
Just set clear boundaries with him and don’t be pushed into doing anything your not comfortable doing and maybe ask where this has all steamed from?

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Plenty of people enjoy this. If you’re not into- tell him.

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Normal but if you don’t like or want it tell him

Is what my husband want to do normal?

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