Normal Boyfriend??

I’ll list scenarios and I would like your honest opinion or fact of the matter. I do want to first point out that in the beginning of relationship, during a conversation, he said ‘he’s not jealous of me, but he is envious of me’… not sure if that may have any relevance…

1. He’s going to visit and I ask if he can bring a Starbucks drink. He says “I’m not an Uber”

2. I plan things ahead and get excited for my future such as having a family or I want to plan to hangout and stick to that date.. he plays the devils advocate by saying ‘things don’t work that way just because you plan’ and ‘we’ll see’

3. I have to get out of the car with my hands already full first and I ask for help; if he can just unplug the phone charger to my phone… he instead tells me to put everything down, unplug my charger, then pick everything back up again.

4. We are sitting next to each other at a meeting and I forgot a pen. I ask if I can borrow his pen. He says “bring your own pen… don’t forget your pen”, then proceeds to let me borrow his pen afterward.

I feel if it were any other person on Earth, he wouldn’t make it that tough and would just help them without question (I see him help all the time and even offer to help), but with me, does it seem like he’s just with me to tear me down?? Am I being treated badly or am I the one that asks for too much?