Does it sound like I *have* to change jobs now??

I decided to end my bizarre fwb/situationship for good today. He would leave and come back a lottt but each time would just be increasingly controlling and emotionally/verbally abusive. It even started to spill into our workplace because he would have jealous meltdowns while we were at work, manipulated me to try to get me to not only cut off all my male work friends but report them to our GM and make me think it was my idea, reported one of them on his own when he told me he wouldn’t, just so much shit. A month ago, he came back and was saying we would just hookup. I was fine with it because the sex was fun. But clearly that was a stupid idea bc he resumed all his other antics, and we were only having sex like once a week if that. I was going to end it one night but then he claimed to be into me and all this stuff so I stayed. But then told me the other day that he would only commit if I “stopped being stupid” and dropped my male friends. Today, I tried to communicate wanting sex more and he said he’s “scared” because he “thinks i have feelings” because of something I said a day before. But if you were going to be “so scared” why would you start something romantic?? And if something happened just yesterday, what about all the other weeks of no sex? I tried to call him out and he avoided it and told me to “chill” and that “I’m always like this”. I was only mad bc he conveniently starts acting funny after I voice concern over him having sex with someone else while he’s at a bachelor party. (He had me agree we’d be exclusive). I told him i was “like this” because I was over everything now and just blocked him.

I know every time I take him back, he gets worse. And working with him could also be risky bc he’s already made issue. But I don’t want to have to get a new job because my last two jobs I got SA’d at 🫠