Is she wrong?

So my bf’s baby mama has an issue with me. She has many issues and I’ve done nothing to her. But avoid her. She is bothered that I’m pregnant and I have no job. She said I’m not a real woman for not working while pregnant. That she’s glad I’m caring and loving for her daughter but I’m not a real woman because I don’t work. I’ve discussed this with my boyfriend and he has no issue with me not working. She said she wishes I couldn’t have kids and just hateful comments. But my boyfriend told her to keep my name out of her mouth and she said until I get a job she will say and do what she wants. She told him if she had to work I need to be working as well.