Drama with wedding

So I’ll t try to keep this short just because it’s a lot, I think I made a topic similar to this before but now I feel like I have a different view on it. My fiancés parents have religious issues with dancing. We were planning on having dancing during our reception. I hate to change what we wanted just because of them, but I also would hate to see them have to leave the reception early because of that. It kind of breaks my heart because my fiancé wanted a dance with his mom but she doesn’t feel it’s appropriate now. The pastor of their church is very strong on this issue, and the church might have issues with them even attending the wedding. I also feel guilty having a dance with my father if my husband to be doesn’t get one with his mom. It’s getting to the point that I am just so worried about them getting up and leaving the reception that I just don’t even want a reception anymore. Maybe we just have a ceremony and go hang out at my parents house and have a little party so we don’t make anyone uncomfortable at the actual wedding venue. I really understand not doing everything for other people when it’s not their day, but I know myself also and I would be so worried on my wedding day if his parents felt uncomfortable or judging us, or other church people at our wedding do. I just feel like I’m so torn with this that I just don’t even want a reception anymore. I just want the day to be happy and my husband to be, and our families to be happy. I don’t know what to do anymore. At this point I feel more excited about just doing a ceremony so we don’t have to worry about all this.