Am I wrong for not wanting visitors in the hospital after I have my baby?
Okay so I’m having my second c section and I wasn’t allowed to have visitors with my first because of Covid. I honestly really liked not having visitors i liked being able to spend time with my husband and new baby without any interruptions. So with this baby im obviously allowed to have visitors but I don’t want to. The first c section I was laying in the hospital bed with a catheter and they gave me gas pills so as embarrassing as it is I was farting uncomfortably lol. I do however want just my mom to come up and bring my son. My in laws are not going to be happy about this but I’m just not comfortable with them seeing me like that plus I know for a fact my father in law will be making jokes about the gas that I can’t control and i really want to avoid that. Im okay with my mom coming because she’s my best friend and I just had major surgery and want my mom there plus she’d be bringing my son. I feel bad about it but I feel like they can wait a few days to meet the baby. My husband understands the way I feel but he’s worried they’re gonna be super pissed about it. Am I wrong for not wanting them there?
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