Feeling sad that my husband "hid" something from me

Starting off I am not making my husband's trauma about me. I would NEVER say how this hurt me to his face. I get it. Nobody is owed trauma and I understand why he didn't tell me, that doesn't make it hurt much less. It's why I'm venting about it instead of telling him because it is his trauma not my own. When I was 7 months into dating my husband I found out he had a large chunk of money in a shavings account. His family was really well off so I was wondering how he had so much money. All he said was he got hurt as a child and was involved in a lawsuit and this was his settlement money. I said oh and figured it was a car accident or some type of injury. Well not too long away I found out from a family member that the lawsuit he was involved in was completely different than I thought it was. The lawsuit was against a specific organization that was sued for sexual abuse of boys. I'm not gonna say which organization because it's nobody's business and sadly since a lot of organizations seem to like children, I think this is vague enough. Anyway he was abused in this organization and he got a settlement. This caused a fight with this family member because my husband said it wasn't their place to say anything about this. I did ask my husband why he never told me and he said because he was tired of being seen as one of the victims of ____. And every time anyone found out they just associated him with this organization and treated him like a victim all the time. He was tired of only being a victim of ____ so he decided unless it was a therapist or counselor he wasn't going to say anything about it ever again to anyone and asked his family to do the same and forget it ever happened. Again, I'm not making this about ke. I can understand why he wouldn't want to keep being associated with that organization but it just feels that he would eventually want to tell me. I mean I'm his wife. It just makes me feel like he didn't trust me and I know that's not it for him. I know he simply didn't want to keep being seen as a victim but these are my feelings. I know my husband loves and trusts me. I just wish he opened up to me. I even tried to connect to him by asking if he would like to talk about it and he said no very fast. I know I'll move on from these feelings and we will be fine. Just wish I was told and I could have offered him support.

Edit: I've been thinking about it and you guys are right. I know this isn't about my feelings. I can understand why my husband doesn't want to continuously be seen as a victim. I just want to support and for him the best way to do that is treat him the same way before I knew. Thank you guys