Does your MIL blame you for everything or does mine just SUCK!

My MIL blames everything that my husband does that she doesn't like on me. And thinks I'm making him do or say things. Most recent example. My husband was dueting a TikTok. It was a girl talking about how statistically kids are better off with single fathers than single mothers. My husband was watching in the duet and drinking a beer and she said Reason#1 a child raised by a single mother is statistically twice as likely to end up in jail/prison. My husband laughed and spit out his beer and showed his mug shot. Yeah he was raised by a single mother. He also went to prison. I get a call from my mother in law yelling at me and all I can say is "What the fuck are talking about?" Just fed up and she said I made my husband make that and all I've wanted to do was destroy their relationship. I told her her son is a grown man. I don't control him or care enough. I don't even have TikTok. She berated me and I hung up. My husband's relationship with his mom is a weird one because he has a weird sense of humor but I honestly can't tell if it's his humor or he genuinely has bad blood with his mom and he's being passive aggressive because anytime he does stuff like this she blames me. He could say "I did this on my own because I wanted to" and she would still say I forced him and I'm ruining their relationship 🙄

Edit: My husband isn't awful. He's great to me and would give the shirt off his back for a stranger. Like I said I don't know if there's bad blood there with his mom or not