What do you think ? Am I overreacting ?

Question

How can you guys make your husband love you again. We’ve been married for almost 11 years and we are in our 30’s and just one baby. Every time we go to any invitations to where two of cousins are (female), my husband just ignore me and he just has a good time laughing with them, they just like to joke with him but not me so I know how is it. But seeing my husband having a good time with the two of them make me feel down and I had confronted him but he said that I  should be proud to have a husband like him that he has fun. He doesn’t care that I feel lonely there so that makes me think that he doesn’t love me anymore. And he tell me to go and have fun with the other people that are in the party.

Answer

Go and talk to other people. You can talk to your husband again when it is only the two of you. Or try to contribute to the conversation they are having. I don't really understand why his attention would be on you when you visit people, because why visit people in the first place if you don't want to communicate with them. Also, this doesn't mean he doesn't love you. It's a fairly common behaviour that he is displaying, most couples behave like that when socialising.

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How often do you guys go to these family events? Is it once in a while or is this like an every weekend thing? If he only sees his family once in a while, I would just let him socialize with his family. You see him all the time. Why don't you try socializing with his family or at least his two cousins or try to make friends with other people at the party? His cousins probably don’t joke with you because they probably don’t know you enough and don’t want to upset you, or maybe they feel like you’re shy or don’t like them since you don’t talk to them. When I or my husband have a family event, we talk with everyone and sometimes even separate and do our own thing. He goes to hang out with my dad and uncles while I hang out with my cousins. It doesn't mean we don't love each other, we're just socializing. That's probably all your husband wants to do.

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So when you go to family parties he interacts with people there and that means he doesn't love you?

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