my man won’t touch me ..

hey y’all,

so long story short, i feel like my man hasn’t been wanting to fuck lately. now i am the one w/ the higher sex drive and when we get into arguments, it doesn’t happen unless i initiate trying to apologize. but when we’re on good terms and i try to initiate he’s not in the mood or says it’s the wrong time. and he won’t even cuddle like that anymore and when we do, i’m almost always the big spoon.

another thing is that we both get home in the early evening from work. he gets home around 6 and i get home around 6:30-7. when we get home we shower then play our own separate games, eat then go to bed. so i don’t like to disturb his “me time” since he had a long day at work so i try to initiate when he goes to bed. he said he doesn’t like that and he be too tired and why don’t i do it earlier ? but one time i put my head playfully on his lap while he was on his phone and he asked me what was i doing and got upset so i just stopped.

now, he’ll initiate sometimes but it’s rare and would be at random times and ofc i’m always down and he knows that so i never have a problem but idk what to do .. it’s starting to make me feel unattractive and that he doesn’t see me in that way anymore idk. this is also the first time i’ve been w/ someone who’s sex drive isn’t as high as mine. but when we do have sex it’s amazing so i don’t understand .. and i’m not trying to seem like i’m a sex fiend cuz there’s been several days in a row we’ve gone w/o it and he’s even told me i need to calm down and i’ve been doing good , but dang ! i just want dick sometime sometimes w/o feeling like i’m begging ! but idk what to. it just makes me not want to initiate at all .. any advice ?