Room mate chronicles !

I gave my roommate a 90 day notice to vacant my home . Since moving in she has taken advantage of mine & my husband’s kindness . Expected us to watch her child overnight for FREE when we both work full time day jobs .She’s never held herself accountable for anything she does in life or the house . We were once very good friends , but i never saw this side of her before .

She always makes snarky comments to us & mostly aims it towards me . I don’t say anything or stand up for myself because she’ll blame it on a mental illness . Literally everything she does , is because of some mental illness she has - she refuses to seek treatment .

To help her out , i have been sending her apartments, therapist , & job openings. I’m only doing it because she’ll bring up needing a place or a new job or mental help.

It’s so exhausting coming home and the kitchen looks like a hurricane blew through it . She shoves everything in the dishwasher & puts DIRTY dishes in the cabinets . She’ll leave a mess in the living room from her child eating at the coffee table - never wipes it down so we have to come home and clean it .

She’ll leave dirty diapers & pads in the bathroom trash or back steps . Does not clean anything other than the dishes or her bedroom. I’ve asked her to clean the bathroom she says she can’t . But she wanted to clean my cats litter box ?

Kids make noise , we have a few godchildren who come over often . She will try to force our kids to share the toys we bought for THEM. Her son will snatch & try to hit them , I’ve told her this behavior is not okay . She’ll scream at her own child when he’s upset telling him to stfu because she’s “too tired from work to deal with him” proceeds to shove a melatonin gummy in his mouth so he will sleep and she can have some “me time “

Every single day all she does is complain to the both of us & over all is a miserable person . I can’t wait until she moves out ! We had our reasonings for letting her move in and now we no longer want her here.