Who’s wrong?

I have a lot of people I work with added on Snapchat. We work in a small group so we’re pretty close. Aside from my boyfriend, they’re the only people I really talk to consistently. There also was an older guy I worked with who my boyfriend hated because he said he was creepy. Even mentioning his name to my boyfriend makes him mad. There also was an instance where my boss almost had me transfer to his store and my boyfriend told me that if I do and start being his friend again, he’ll never talk to me again. There’s a newer older guy and I talk to him in passing. He doesn’t flirt with me, he’s just really nice, and I appreciate it because I don’t have my dad. (My boyfriend hates this guy too)

One of my coworkers was making fun of me about my “daddy issues” and I was making a joke on Snapchat to my work friends saying how I didn’t trust his opinion, referencing this one time where that same coworker set me up with a f*ckboy, before my boyfriend. My boyfriend saw it and said I was just “being cringey” and “looking for attention” and made me delete the snap. But then yesterday he made a story about comparing his gym day to “when you’re 7/8 and chasing a bully down the street for making fun of you and the accomplishment you feel after”. I thought it was cringey but said NOTHING because it’s not my story and if his friends think it’s funny, cool.

I feel like my boyfriend always does that to me. If he doesn’t like something, he’ll be shitty about it. But then he does the same thing and it’s fine. He’s even said to me before that when I do things, it’s different than when he does it