Would you be upset?

My fwb/situationship is a dick but I tolerated it because he was just sex anyways. But I’m kinda over it. I see he just wanted to control me and I was over it.

For example, I wanted to switch birth controls (to one that helps skip periods) and he told me no. Said he had too much anxiety about me getting pregnant and then said he didn’t want me to ruin my ability to have children in the future. But then it just was awkward because I told him he’s rejected me a couple times, so my fertility shouldn’t matter to him if he doesn’t want me anyways, so conversation stopped. I brought it up again today, because I didn’t want to just drop it when it’s my body - mind you, he also refuses to really even TRY condoms and instead is relying on birth control and me getting an abortion. So he said “ok fine whatever” but then also says “but don’t lie about how long the doctor says we have to wait to have sex again, I wanna know for myself”. I got mad and literally just said “wtf??” And he said “I’m not trying to be mean I was just saying I want to know how long it’ll be too” and I said “no, you wouldn’t specifically say not to lie unless you have reason to think I’d lie to you about it, so why would you think that?” And he said “maybe you wouldn’t then, idk”. I just went off and told him he’s the last person I’d wanna get pregnant by and told him it was over. And he just answered with “ok then get mad over nothing then”.

But it’s not nothing? He basically lowkey implied that he doesn’t trust me, but if I ever express distrust, he gets mad and says we’ve been hooking up long enough that I should trust him. And when he talked about it, it just really came across like he thinks I’m gonna try to “trap him”.