There wasn’t an ‘adult friendship’ channel so I thought I’d post it here.

I’m (25f) feeling a little used by one of my “best” friends(24f). She moved out of state this summer and has been in a long distance relationship with her bf(23m).

Her and her bf have been off again/on again the last year. She booked tickets to visit him from Dec. 28-Jan 7 months ago, but broke up with him right before Christmas. Instead of wasting the tickets, she asked if she could come visit me instead. Which I agreed to.

We made new years plans, got an air bnb for the weekend and I made arrangements for her to stay with me. Got groceries, etc. The day before she gets here, she asks him to get back together and then cancels all of our plans. She did reimburse me for the Airbnb and invite me to spend new years with him and his friends. I declined and made my own plans with this guy I’ve been seeing (this actually worked out well because him and i got closer).

But still, I can’t help but feel slightly used by my “best” friend. Or maybe like a place holder, idk. Am I tripping or would you guys feel the same way.

Oh! And she didn’t even tell me. I asked if she needed a ride from the airport and she told me they got back together.