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Is this just a kink or is he gay or bi ?

My husband has really high sex drive and hes in to hardcore and anal stuff and i dont after i had our daughter i lost the sex drive am kind of sad about it and never liked anal i was always kind of vanila but If i only lay next to him and rest my arm on hes chest he instantly puch it down hes pants and want it .

he really likes doing anal i dont like it much

He likes to use big dildos on me and tries to push it in my ass 😂 i dont let him if he wants to use dildos he can in my vayjajjaj i dont like it am not in to kinks but i let him have fun at least at that he gets super horny when he uses the dildos on me

And that the moment when he asks if i want 2 guys fucking me he really insists on that and im telling him no because i know hes a jealous man i cant even joke about other mens he gets super jealous and now hes keep insisting on having 3 some with us and another male when we have hardcore sex that’s really confusing for me i never heard him telling me that in 9 years being together and now it happened like 10 times he started asking for it since last year summer and when i ask him about it the next morning he just tells me to stop talking about it and gets angry or jealous or shy im not recognising the feelings from him because its so weird for us we never done something like this i thought it was only dirty talking thats all.

i am kind of traditional

I only had been with 2 guys and he knows I wouldn’t just have sex with anyone

But all this was just explaining how we are so you can understand this situation and maybe tell me iam just tripping

So yesterday around 8 pm he came to me and asked me if he can help he’s friend that he got kicked out of hes place and hes been out for 3 days and if we can help him for 1 night i dont know him my husband used to work with him but i said yes so mu husband went and brought him at our home so i let him have shower and when he came out i gave him plate with food cause i figured he must be hungry after being on the street for 3 days after that i went upstairs I didn’t talk to him my husband did when i put the kids to sleep i went in my room and waited for my husband to come upstairs when he finished talking to that guy by the way we let him sleep on the couch in living room so when my husband came upstairs in our room he changed in pj shorts and nothing on the top he usually dont like walking around that infront of other people but he went downstairs to talk to that other guy again i went downstairs to grab a drink before going sleep and i saw that in living room was dark and quiet I thought they went out so i called my husband name and he answered i then asked him from the hallway what hes doin in there in the dark he was like oh we just talk. That was strange I thought but i just brushed it off and went upstairs again trying to sleep because i have to wake up in the morning to get my son ready for shool so then my husband came in our room and straight away was trying to go down on me he dont usually do that we only do 69 i got surprise and I told him to stop that we got a guest downstairs and he didnt care he was licking me and trying to get me super horny and then he started to fuck me missionary and then he asked me ( SHOULD I GO AND GET HIM ? )

I couldn’t believe what he just said and I slapped him i then stood up and started crying because i felt like he planned it then I tried to leave the door and go to our kid’s room he didn’t let me go he tried to tell me that i am wrong for thinking he would do that that it was only dirty talking and he was kind of upset on me he didn’t even apologise to me he just kept telling me that i dont like nothing only the boring straditional sex i dont let him use dildos on me and and i dont like anal i dont let him dirty talking to me wich i do but I don’t want to hear him telling me if i want to fuck 2 guys at ones and he told me he will stop talking to me about it because i just made drama and I believe when he asked me for him to join us that it was only dirty talking and am just really confused because i know he is jealous type of guy then i left and went to sleep in other room next morning we woke up i got my son ready for school i dint even went downstairs cause i could not even see that other guy then my husband took him with him and drop my son to school and he then apparently drop him to hes other friend’s house and now hes not even spoke of him