Hello ladies,

I need some advice/opinions!

A little background info

I have a 14 yr old and my husband and I tried for 6 yrs to have a baby, and had planned to see a specialist this year if we were still unsuccessful. Sadly he passed away 9mo ago.

I'm now having to decide on either getting fixed or birth control.

My dilemma is that there is still a small part of me that wants another one, but I'm 38. I know I'm past the point of where it's safe, and mine is already nearly grown. I'm not sure I want to start over either...

I've done the depo shot and had good luck but it's made me a little mean.

I had the IUD it did great but caused cysts in my ovaries

So let me hear it ladies