Does this look like it ripped on its own?

M: it matters because I prefer my guy to be honest with me as I am him. Clearly he doesn’t feel comfortable telling the truth, even over a coat. Now if he had gotten me a coat and something “accidentally” happened he would tell me he’s not replacing it this and that. So yes of course honesty is great. Hopefully one day he can be with someone comfortable enough to tell things too.

And the cost itself doesn’t matter it’s about just being honest even if it’s over something petty.