Obey to my man?!?!!

Therefore I learned from his mouth that he’s the man of the house and from texts from the bible the woman must submit to the man she married.So I must speak when he says that is ok ,how to do my household, many towels I must use,when I can stay alone at the house etc ….I am almost traumatized.Hes a 100 percent canadian. I’m not the kind of person who had a small character.I was raised by many really strong women.Must I leave or try to make him understand we’re in 2024 ?He wasn’t like that before.Help here please.