Too tired to BD

We have been trying for baby 2 since December but I feel like it's going to take forever because my husband and I are both exhausted. He works 50-60 hour weeks most week, I work 40, and our toddler still occasionally wakes in the night. Husband is up between 4am - 6am most mornings for work and by the time my fertile window starts, we are usually exhausted and lucky if we BD twice, let alone every day.

This month we also have illness in the mix and I'm just feeling like it's never going to happen. We conceived the first month with my toddler, and im now 35+ and worried we just won't get the opportunity to BD, let alone actually conceive baby number 2.

Does anyone else feel the same?