Is my mom a bad mom?

I have little memories from certain points in my childhood. My mom had me in child modeling so I was homeschooled for my modeling career and I have no money to show for it. I know she made a lot off me but I never saw any of it and I know she used a lot of it in herself. I wasn't even really upset about that but I will randomly get blocked memories back and tell my boyfriend certain things and he will just look at me in horror and honestly hates my mom now. One memory I had blocked out was when I was 5 or 6 and was modeling. The photographer touched me and I told my mom and she told me it's part of the job. She was nice at first but then yelled at me not to screw anything up. I knew never to bring it up again and she continued to take me to that photographer. I don't have many memories from them because I blocked them out but I'm 90% sure I have a memory of some photographer making me model naked as a child. I was in relationships were I was SA'd as an adult and think it's because i was never taught to have boundaries as a child. I did try to speak with my mom about a few things but she insists I'm overreacting and she gave me the best childhood and I should be happy that I had an opportunity that most kids don't. My boyfriend thinks my mom is horrible and toxic. I'm just at a loss on what to do