It wasn’t his decision to make

Because of CPP and PAS o have to deliver my son next Wednesday. We only told our parents and our a couple friends. It been a very stressful pregnancy on me.

My husband calls his grandma every week to say hi because she loves out of state. Well he decided to tell her that we were delivering early and I’m upset. Why? Because his Grandma is the family gossip. She literally can’t keep a single thing to herself. So I just found out from my MIL that she knows the day and has been talking anyone who will listen to her.

I wanted it to be a surprise because NOTHING in this pregnancy has gone the way I hoped. I just wanted one thing and to be in control of the announce of our son’s birth. We can still announce of course but, I don’t know. Now I get to field all the “why did you choose to have him born so early?!” questions.

I know this sounds selfish but he could have at least asked me. He says “it doesn’t have to be this big secret surprise of when he’s born”.

Maybe I’m just stupid. I don’t know.