Drunk Husband Cheated

Husband cheated on me, he kissed someone when he was drunk and told me about it while he was mad and drunk and told me I should be thankful the girl wasn’t down to fuck. He is now very sorry about it, but I do not want to see him ever since that happened, am I in the wrong for not really talking to him and taking some space?

He also blamed the cheating on me

He said it was my fault because the night before I had a mental breakdown and I yelled he should find someone else and I left to go stay at a hotel, he did have my location but he wanted to act like I didn’t want him to know where I was.

He said it was my fault for leaving, that if I wouldn’t have left he wouldn’t have been out in the first place and that I told him to do it.

I have asked him to take the trash out, but he doesn’t do that, but the moment I have a crisis and say that he actually listens to me?

He made me go back to the house just to tell me that :( I immediately left back to my hotel after that and haven’t been home in a week.