Situationship

Hey everyone, needing some advice here.

Basically, me and this guy have been talking for a month. We both aren’t long out of long term relationships so therefore know that we both aren’t exactly looking for anything serious right now. However we get on so well and have such a laugh together. Basically he went out the other night and was drunk, he text me saying how he was showing me off to his friends, how that if I was his girl he would look after me no matter what and then was also on FaceTime to me telling his MUM all about me saying all this stuff about how beautiful I was and how he loves me! Now I didn’t think too much into this because he was drunk and we just always have a laugh.

Anyways, after that night I don’t hear from him for 2 full days. Now considering we had been talking every day for a month this was strange. He had always told me he was honest and would tell me if he didn’t want to speak anymore, and how he hopes that I don’t ignore him and all this.

So I had been sitting they 2 days worried that I had done something or something had happened to him. It was just strange that he went from one extreme to another so quick.

Anyways, he then texts me and says how he got a shock when he realised that we could potentially go somewhere and that it’s just a really weird time for him just now and he wasn’t sure if I thought more of us than what we were n how the talking every day is a bit much for him if he doesn’t want anything serious rn (baring in mind he is the needy one and initiates the talking every day), but he then went onto say that he lives talking to me and fancies me blah blah blah.

Now I was so confused at this, I knew he didn’t want anything serious and I don’t either so I told him this and that I appreciate what he’s said but was just confused that he went from one extreme to another so quickly. I ended up deleting him for a couple of days because the way he went about things really annoyed me but I ended up adding him back when I was drunk.. as you do🙈

He messaged asking why I added him back and all this and I just explained that I didn’t delete him because of what he said it was the leaving me sitting for 2 days, he said he didn’t know what to say and that it wasn’t that deep..

I finally felt settled that I had told him how I felt and quite frankly don’t mind if I never spoke to him again, I just didn’t want him to think I was annoyed that he said he didn’t want anything serious.

Then he was out last night and I get a text saying that’s me home I’m so drunk.

Like what?? Why are you still texting meeee I don’t understand men

If anyone can give me advice on men please do because I cannot figure this man out🤣🤣