I feel i cant date... i feel stuck

Okay so... for one I have a BD that do shit for 3yrs of my daughters life and no he's just starting to help.

I've told him time and time again were only coparenting but he has still tried to make moves on me. But I made it clear I don't want him like that ( the last straw was me catching him on an escort site and being called a whore)

With that said bc my family is really flaky and trifling. He's been watching the kids while I go to work.

2. A guy I was seeing...our relationship was rocky from the Start and just got worse and worse. He's losing a lot of family. I want to be there for him. Tried reaching out but I'm getting ignored 2-3 days at a time and we have a 3hr distance between us. I feel like I can't help him. I want to but he barely speaks and I get it. Death is traumatic but I feel like isk. I feel I can't get to him. I also feel like an asshole breaking up while he's dealing with so much.

3. I met a new guy at work. He seems nice but bc of everything I'm dealing with I hadn't said a word. I feel I can't. I feel stuck..

Advice? @ Kathryn : I am. Im headed for nursing school in June. But maybe youre right. My situation needs to calm down first.@GG youre right ill just play things cool