Pregnant, toddler & I are sick and husband refuses

He refuses to help in any capacity. I asked him if he could please rub my back because it has been hurting alot with this pregnancy, that and my hips. He refused. I asked if he could help clean up around the house - I’ve laid in bed feeling gross most of the day besides taking care of our toddler because he didn’t help with him at all. Threw a bish fit and told me no to helping clean when I asked him.

I got up because it was giving me anxiety from it being messy to clean somewhat. he cusses me out for there being dishes in sink and that dinner wasn’t what he wanted nor was it done because he was hungry 30 minutes ago per him. Mind you I’m pregnant, sick as a dog, taking care of our sick toddler and he’s been on his phone or on his video games all day fully capable of doing all things- seeing all things in our home that needs done. Am I wrong for being over our marriage and just everything? It’s everyday and I don’t want it to be like this with a newborn & a toddler with the weight of the world on my shoulders alone. Talking has gotten nowhere. I would get more response out of a brick wall literally.

I just want to feel better and for our toddler to feel better 😭