What is a Mom?

I have seen women pour out so much love they concern the selves with everyone's needs from the time a child is in the womb mom gets prenatal care, vitamins healthy food. To breastfeeding or waking up and feeding baby 🍼 changing diapers and the amount of time and care it takes to raise children.

It seems like women are caring are nurturing and I feel like women are alone this is in general not everyone but in general it's like children they prefer the grandpa, the grandma, the dad and it's like children prefer want to spend time with everyone except mom and after a certain age it's friends and children prefer friends to spending time with parents and then it seems like mom is alone. I have seen so many post on here about how hurt mom feel like they get left out and it seems children are able to have fun with dad, grandparents they are able to play while mom does everything It's a sense of responsibility and women take care of things raise children, teach manners, discipline, boundaries, potty training, walking, there's education at home and it's like mothers to everything cooking, cleaning, make doctors appointments, school enrollment it's like the Mothers run the household.

It's upsetting that a lot of women are getting divorced and married women feel like they are single parents and single mothers they deserve love respect it's a lot of frustrating feelings because I think about the love women deserve and it makes me sad thinking about like mom's don't get love mom's deserve so much more

I feel like women are overlooked and people don't realize how special important women are and everything people talk about are mom's should sacrifice everything or everything is the mom's fault there was a post on here about a Mother enjoying a bonding moment with her son watching the solar eclipse together and he ran out over to the neighbors strangers and she had to call him over he said no wouldn't want to leave had a tantrum and she had to bring him inside and they couldn't watch the solar eclipse together a event that happens so rarely a total solar eclipse and she was upset because it was special to her doesn't a Mother deserve a moment to experience something once in a lifetime she was hurt because she planned the day together to watch everything and had everything ready and a total solar eclipse only last four minutes total darkness with glowing light and they were watching the phases of the eclipse waiting until the exact moment and the child ran off with strangers from the neighborhood and the mom called him over he wouldn't come and they missed the experience it was ruined. But the mom is allowed to feel.

There's so many times mom's do everything for children for example infants are crying so mom's leave the area out of consideration to everyone, the child needs to be breastfeed so mom finds a way and many times children interrupt breakfast, lunch, dinner many times mom's cook for everyone and they are so tired hungry also correct manners at the table to grocery shopping the crying baby or the diaper, potty training or the terrible twos, threes the toddler tantrums screaming crying in a grocery store, not being able to sit still at a restaurant and it's a list that can go on to children that don't let the parents sleep

My question is How can women be loved valued cherished what makes a mom someone you want to spend time with how can a mother bond with her children how can a mother have her needs met and how can her family show her love there is a book on love languages and it's important to have self love self care but it's so valuable to have people who care about you appreciate you and show love support kindness