Is it just me or am i wrong?

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So my husband and I split all bills but most of the time he’s a bit short. Whatever. I also buy the groceries and cook them. We both work but I also go to school. 
The days I have school I usually the to plan simple things that way he can eat while I’m at school. 
Monday I started a roast before work at 6am 
And when I got home from work I made the sides before I left to school that way he can eat. 
While I was at school he stayed out hanging out with friends drinking. 
By the time I got out of school he still wasn’t home so I just ate alone. 
Would this upset you? 
Yesterday I also made dinner he wasn’t here. 
We haven’t talked since Monday because he hasn’t apologized or said anything he’s basically just waiting for me to get over it 
Yet there’s days he’s in my ear telling me he’s hungry…. 
I feel if I’m providing the meals he can at least be here or not waste my time cooking. I also feel he could be the one providing the meals the days I have school

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I’m sorry girl, you sound like his mother, not his wife ☹️ hopefully communication can help you both, maybe he doesn’t know he’s taking liberties?

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Id be pissed. Stop cooking for him.

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Good luck on raising your child because thats what this sounds like. He's a grown ass man....sit him down and have a chat about what you need but also what he needs to do. He can cook for him and you. He can figure out his money situation. Ya there may be days he is out with friends and you eat solo or vice versa but what you wrote here just makes it clear you took over as his mom. Only gonna get worse unless you stop it. He's supposed to be your partner not your dependent

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I’d be so upset . Sounds like he doesn’t appreciate your time and effort . Sounds like he rather be out drinking.

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I would be furious! He's already not pulling his weight  with the bills and  you still have to buy the groceries and cook them? And he has the gumption to complain about being hungry?!!?

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Why are you babying a grown man? You two are partners. Household are for both of you, that includes cooking. 
Waiting for an apology isn’t appropriate. You’re adults in a committed relationship. Sit down and talk about it.

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I’d be pissed as well. I’d probably just stop cooking.

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Are you splitting the bills proportional to income and is he still short each time?  Have you had a conversation along the lines of the current schedule isn’t working and you want to adjust it so he is able to contribute more towards the household responsibilities on your busier days?

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Tell him he needs to let you know when he'll be home to eat dinner so you know when to cook for him or not.

Is it just me or am i wrong?

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