Does this sound like alcohol abuse? Just recieved a phone call and can’t sleep.

Hello. I’m very distraught and have no idea what is going! First I’d like to start on a positive note. I had an interview today for my dream job and got the offer within 30 minutes. They stated they were impressed by me🩷

Today around 5pm, he texted me saying his dog was throwing up worms and was on the way to the hospital. I expressed my concerns and didn’t hear from my bf for about 3 hours. My last text was 6pm. Around 9pm, I get a phone call from him. Of course I ask about his dog and he dismisses that whole topic.

He has very slurred speech and it randomly speaking. I can’t even speak because kept interrupting with “baby” “babe” he’s totally dismissing my voice. Right now, his car has been in the dealer for about 2 months. He’s under so much stress and I understand. In the phone call he was telling me he regrets purchasing that used car and should have listened to me. He said he has realized it is not worth it and now regrets not listening to my advice. He tells me he can’t sleep at night due to his poor choices and should have saved that money to get us a place. I told him he just needs to remain positive. At this point he’s slurring words and tells me “just know babe I love you. And…nevermind I’m just not going to say anything” I kept asking what is wrong. He told me he will just not tell me and he’s going through a lot. I told him that his truck will get fixed and he kept saying “no babe there’s other stuff but nevermind I don’t want to say stupid shit just know I love you and sometimes I cry at night becaus you don’t answer my calls” it starts getting very weird … I asked if he was drinking and he said no

The fact he said I don’t pick up his calls when I do caught me off guard. I do answer and when I don’t I’m honestly busy running errands or at work. I told him “well honestly I’m not sure why you’re telling me this I always let you know if I’m busy and right now I answered your call. It’s pretty sad you haven’t even asked me how my interview went or asked if I landed that job…seems like you don’t care about asking me stuff” he totally ignores that whole comment and mumbles stuff. He disregarded my feelings. At this point I get very annoyed and told him why is he acting like he’s hiding something. He keeps blabbering and asks me why I always assume the worst. He then asks me what would I do if he dies… my heart races and tells him why would he ask me that? I again ask him what’s wrong??? Then I hear him talk to his dog and I asked him where he is at. He was at a liquor store at 9pm…. I told him he needs to get back home and not risk his life or anyone’s. He then says “I’m home” so I get frustrated and ask if he’s home or not…he confessed he’s not home but will go home….he doesn’t know what he’s saying

I hear him talk to his dog and out of no where he sounds panicked and says “babe fuck no babe fuck….i lost my phone what the fuck I can’t find my phone” I kept saying “babe? I’m talking to you on the phone what are you talking about???” Not sure if it was connected to the blue tooth or why he was saying he lost his phone. He starts sounding super anxious and tells me “I can’t find my phone….hang up hang up….fuck I don’t know where I am at I feel like I’m blacking out I don’t know where I am at”

He hangs up.

I text his mom worried. Listen, my heart was racing I don’t know anything or why he’s slurring and talking nonsense. His mom says “it’s been 3 days he’s been acting out of it. Just block him he doesn’t want help”

I asked her if she can please tell me when he gets home and he did like 4 minutes later. He never texted me back or tell me he’s alright…

I’m so heartbroken. What is going on? I know he had a alcohol issue before but this is getting out of hand. I don’t even know if alcohol does this to a person. Yesterday he also had called me sounding paranoid that I don’t love him? Then he brings up a random topic about me being on birth control and not letting him fuck raw. wtf! Like what is angry about? Then he says he wanted to beat some “gangster” at the 99 cents store and felt like his blood was boiling.

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