My bf’s dad pulled out a bat on him and his mom called the mental hospital.

S I’ve been with my bf for 2 years now and I somewhat know his family. From the times I’ve met/talked to his parents they seem like good people. My bf has 3 brothers and it seems like they only have issues with my bf. My bf tells me it’s his parents who are toxic but I don’t know how to even react to this. When I’ve spoken to his mom, she seems sweet and tells me it’s my bf who has issues.

So last week my bf had issues with his dad. My bf told me his dad wants to kick him out of the house and change the door locks. I thought that was so extreme and feel that if his dad wants to do that then there is a serious reason begin that!

Turns out the argument was about finances. I guess my bf isn’t good with money.

Just today, my bf got into another argument and his dad pulled out a bat. My bf told me he was ready to fight him and his mom was calling the mental hospital. Again, I feel like something is going on. I don’t think a parent would do all that. I feel that if you’re pulling out a bat on your 27 year old son it’s because he’s a threat!

He called me and he started telling me that his mom doesn’t understand he has monthly bills totaling 6k. (He’s a business owner) I told him I’m sure she does but she probably has the same bills like: mortgage, water bill, electricity, etc… so it’s not good to compare. He should listen to his mom because she just wants him to succeed.

My bf exploded on me said she doesn’t. Like I wasn’t trying to belittle him but trying to understand his rage and violent behavior. I don’t know what mess I’m getting myself into. Are his parents toxic/abusive or is my bf the dangerous one???