Am i wrong for this?

Me and my friends are going to a concert 3 hours from where we live, one of my friends has a friend there that would let us stay at his apartment afterwards because the concert ends very late and there are no transportation to get us home. I told my boyfriend about this and he got annoyed because I was gonna be staying at a guys place. I have met this guy once before when he picked up me and my friend after another concert, he was very sweet and drove us home. He’s kind and shy and all of us trust him. My friends usually stay at his place after parties when they visit his town. The three of us are gonna share his bed, and he sleeps on his couch, and in the morning we get picked up and go back home. My boyfriend insisted on picking me up after the concert, but he has work early in the morning and will barely get any sleep, so I said no. He asked me if I didn’t want him to come because we were gonna stay at a guys place, which is crazy. One of mine friends has been away for a couple of months for work, and now she’s back. I’m not really close to her but she insisted on it being a “girls night” because it’s been so long since she saw us. We also had a girls night before she left town. My boyfriend isn’t invited because she wanted it to be just the three of us, and my boyfriend can join any other time. He also said that it was double standard of me to stay at a guys house when I didn’t allow him to sleep over at his female friend’s house. He asked me early in our relationship if he could sleep at her place and I said no, now i’m a “hypocrite” because i’m going to be sleeping at a guys place. The concert is next week and he regularly brings up that i’m going to be sleeping at a guy’s house and he’s worrying and overthinking. Her friend isn’t going to be anywhere near us and I would never cheat. I don’t know if it is double standards or if it’s okay??