unable to have a big O

Girls does anyone else struggle big time to get an orgasm??? I have never had one and sometimes it’s annoying bc w some guys when im hooking up w them, they don’t want to stop until i squirt or have an O… but like I’ve never had one and I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that i might never will

With me when i’m going solo usually every time i feel a point of high tension and like almost there, my brain just blocks and even if im feeling a lot of pleasure, every time i reach that point it’s like… well might as well stop now. But with the guys it’s like they take it as a challenge and a lot of it has to do with ego…

Ughh idk it’s soo annoying… has anyone been there?