My 48 year old mom is in her perimenopause and pregnant with baby number 6.

So i am a 28 year old lady, not married yet and still living with mom and dad together with my 5 younger siblings.

So my mom is 48 and approaching her menopause stages. She's also not well health wise. Suffers from Hypertension, gastric ulcers and other complications that comes with.

She got really sick just recently and i sent her to the hospital only to find out that she is actually 1 month 2 weeks pregnant with baby number 6.

I am low key excited and feel like this is gonna be my baby since she has grown, isn't so well and can't take on busy mom duties now.

But a little worried too about my future, i was gonna leave the country for work at another country and perhaps apply for residency to live there. My boyfriend was going to come with me. i was going to get married to my boyfriend, move to the new country and start a family together. But with the baby on the way, i don't know if i can still leave. I haven't told my boyfriend about it also

Mom doesn't want me to put a hold on my life for that but my heart really doesn't want to leave her...

I'm kinda stuck inbetween