Girls trip when in relationship

I am 22 my bf is 21.We have been together for 6 months. I have a group of girlfriends and every summer we go on a girls trip for 3 days.But my friends are the party kind so this trip is not chill at all, it includes all day at the beach, then restaurant and them nights beach club.I know that I wouldn’t be okay with my boyfriend going with his friends on that kind of trip so i know that i should not go too.He is completely okay with not going, he thinks that when in relationship trip should be us as a couple and friends, not solo trips.I did agreed with that but now my friends are discussing dates and stuff and i feel like i am going to miss out.I want to go but i know that we both agreed on that and i said i was okay with it.What so you think?Are girls trips with looots of partying and alcohol okey if i am in a relationship.Most of my friends are taken but they don’t care if their boyfriends go on a trips or not.