MARRIAGE SEX LIFE 👎🏼

Hello everyone!

I need some advice, but before I can ask here’s some of my history.

Me and my husband have had a rocky sexual relationship for a few years now. I used to love sex when we first got together, after Covid I quickly had absolutely ZERO sexual drive. Nothing turned me on, I didn’t want my husband (or anyone else). I finally went to the doctor after 7 months of this happening. Found out I had a brain tumor. Had surgery in December 2023 and now I am back to myself and I want sex a few times a week.

My husband was such a trooper and went so long worried about me and putting his sexual needs last. But now that I am back to myself I try to imitate it and he just doesn’t seem interested… he doesn’t compliment me anymore, love on me, nothing. Just acts like I am a placeholder in the house… I hate it. I’ve tried talking to him about it but he always shuts the topic down.

Since December when I had my surgery I have lost over 250 pounds and now I just feel that he is unattractive now (even though he says he’s not)

What would you do in my case?