I know I’ve been posting about this constantly

But can somone explain how porn isn’t cheating ?, I’m very confused I mean my man looks up women putting objects in their vaginal area ?. Who are blonde big breasts big ass Ect I’m not blonde .. does that mean he’s into blondes more ? … I’m curious because now I don’t really mind if he does I just in uncomfortable seeing it like I don’t like seeing a big breast women on it on his phone ( he allows me on it he doesn’t care ) … but! Why blondes ? I get it they are pretty. I’ve even asked him if it’s because he finds them more attractive or well interesting (?). Like I’m fine if he watches it as long as I don’t see it or if he tells me he’s going to then he deletes it after. The issue was me seeing it then overthinking he likes blondes more lol.. 😂..? But I get it he thinks of me when he does it he even says that but why click on blondes 😂😅.. plus he says he hates skinny girls ( basically the ones who think they are full of themselves ) now I’m a bigger girl and he loves it he loves messing with my stomach ☺️😅

but can somone explain how it isn’t cheating like can Yall give me examples for I understand I mean now I’m fine with it