My bf has been complaining that we don’t have sex enough.

We have sex maybe once - twice a week. And he says that we are young, don’t have kids, and we should be doing it 7-10 times a week.

I have a pretty low sex drive. I have for a few years now. I think it’s because of my birth control because I use to have a very high sex drive.

I don’t want to stop my bc pill because I don’t want to risk getting pregnant.

But do you have any advice ?

Also, I want to say that I don’t want to change JUST to make him happy. I honestly would like to have my higher sex drive back for myself as well. I know I would like to be closer to him in that way.

I’m just never in the mood anymore.

I am very attracted to him so it’s not that.