I snapped at my husband. He is the worker outside the home and works overtime. I make all his meals do all his laundry take care of the pets and kids. Today I needed sleep. The baby hasn't slept through the night in over a month. I tore my shoulder, have had multiple periods this month, and have a headache and was throwing up. I needed rest.

He got up with two of our kids leaving the baby to cry. He made a mess in the kitchen. Didn't bathe the kids who had woken up wet with wet bedding and didn't wash any bedding or do any laundry.

He then has to leave for a football draft.

I explained it isn't a break if I still have the baby have to clean, make lunch, prep dinner and do laundry.

His exact words were "he doesn't deserve to be talked to like that." My exact words back was "I don't deserve to be treated like this."

I haven't been away from our kids in months he does between work guy time and sports. I'm burned out physical and mentally.

My family last minute gifted us tickets to a comedian and got us a baby sitter. This is a huge deal we maybe have one date a year and I never get time away.

So I'm prepping the house fastly trying to wash all the kids wet urine bedding and make them lunch and prep them dinner and snacks for the free baby sitter because they are doing me a favor.

I'm in so much pain I'm crying and I'm so fed up with me having to do more then my fair share. He promised me last night he would do dishes and garbage as he hasn't in a few weeks and he didn't do that either. So it's like I'm just treated like I'm constantly having to carry the family even when I need help.

He tried to hug me before leaving but I seriously don't even want to go on a date with him I just want to leave the house sit in my car in peace and be alone. I'm sad.