Venting/advice

I’ve been w my husband almost 11 years, married 2.

Lately, we just been bumping heads a lot.

I feel we are on different paths. Maybe, even out grown each other. Definitely don’t have the honeymoon stage anymore.

There’s just been too many things causing us to bump heads.

He feels I lack giving him attention but then I feel he lacks it too when there’s nights I’m home eating dinner alone.

But anyway, idk if space between us would be a good thing right now. It would be easier for him to stay somewhere since I have my dog.

Maybe a week to start and see if that would help and give us an idea if not being together is what is needed.

I miss when he treated me with respect. We use to laugh, have fun, and just enjoy each other.

It’s not like that anymore…

Idk. It makes me sad, but also it’s not fair for both of us to be unhappy.

I think we usually go 2 weeks on good terms than one bad week. It’s a cycle.