So my brother lives with Mr. Since hes stayed the first 3 months he was either short on rent and didn't give me any at all.

Which left me using all my money to cover his half and me saying you owe me this,that and thr third didn't matter bc hes hyper religious and always gives his money away.

I didn't throw him out bc he atleast had a car at the time and it helped since mine was totaled in an accident. Well to solve the problem of him always being short on rent he decided to give his car away do he could still pay his pastor and give me something.

When I tell this to my mom she says I'm gonna play devils advocate-- atleast he gives you something. He has no kids.

And my my other pulled out from watching my kids and said he didn't owe me anything and he put his life on hold to watch my kids which was a lie bc my kids were in daycare most of the time. The only time he watched them were the stints they were kicked out of daycare. So the whole yr they were in school he did nothing but sleep all day.. and even now that he's not watching the kids he sleeps all day and does nothing.

Never asking him for help again. I've been denied by caps 3 times. I applied again. Had my interview and now I'm awaiting to see if I'm approved or not..

Bc of that I had to go part time with my job, less money which means I can barely pay rent. Also my brother comes and. Goes as he pleases.. I tell him I at the very least need him home so I can work.. many times he doesn't show up and im on the verge of being fired.

I tell my mom ( when she comes over we just get on the topic) she just says atleast he gives you something. He has no kids so he doesn't have to be anywhere he doesn't want to be.

But it prevents me from working.. but she still says the same thing.

Also she tried to put my dad off on me saying he's making her miserable and I could use him as a baby sitter but when he was here he kept telling me what he wasnt going to do and ate all my food didn't contribute financially and showed zero respect I told h3r no he can't come here. That's HER problem..

I m just frustrated with my mom. Am I wrong in any way I feel im not but .. idk opinions.

Also I do have a rental im using to make it by on and I have some wfh jobs in the works. Well see how they go. :/ EDIT: @ J: no i didnt. When did i just post this.?@ Grace : no. I told him i need him to be home so i can leave out for work on time so i can make some money. He agreed to this. Im not taking advantage of him at all. If i cant work i cant pay rent and he sure as hell wont do it. He lives with me so its about working together so we both can make it. Hes not holding up his end. Im take him to and from work, he guves me no gas, I buy food he eats it up. So no im not using him at all.