Cutting off the world ?

Chasity

When I told my partners mom I might be miscarrying she said we don’t need a baby. Nothing more nothing less. When I posted my pregnancy after finding out my baby was okay his family members called him not me asking about the miscarriage and he said everything is okay now.. no one has hit me up to say congrats .. I don’t have his dads side on my fb or insta because last thing he said to him that I’m aware of was take full custody of my son and leave me with nothing despite his son living off of me for 5 years straight. We were going through a tough patch and unlike with my mom who gets called on a normal and hears all the good and some bad his parents only get called for advice on the bad. Feel how you feel I’m never messing with that side again. I told my partner I’d never do that to him it’s cruel for all parties and unnecessary as there’s no adultery or abuse that happens for that to have been said.. Today my partner just wanted to confine in me as he has but one friend. He said his mom’s side told his dad side about the pregnancy as I’ve been posting it up.. AGAIN I HAVENT HEARD A THING FROM ANYONE NOT EVEN HIS MOMS SIDE THAT WATCHES MY STORY.. Anyway he said his dad told him he’s disappointed in him and that he taught him to wrap it up. That shit broke my heart hearing it.. I respect my partner for being so honest and trusting me but I can’t fathom letting my child around that man or side of his family… how dare you root for our demise ? How dare you not bless this pregnancy? Me and my partner have been together 5 years. I get the rent paid despite not having a job and he has just begun a stable job as he loses jobs after only a month or so of having them and then it takes damn near a year for him to find another. We been through it all and stuck it out together. Regardless I love this man. I don’t want him to resent me for not wanting to be around either side of his family. Don’t buy anything for my baby don’t ask t call because you guys don’t anyway. I used to call and see if they wanted to speak to the baby then I stopped. I cut off my own family members for less why would I tolerate this bold disrespect. He says it’s their opinion and I should respect it and I don’t I’m petty I’m hurting first his mom and now his dad. How would y’all handle this ? I already don’t talk to his mom but I was going over there when he needed to help her so my baby could go because my partner can’t travel two hours alone with the baby as the baby is a mommas boy and two sets of arms is better than one. Now I don’t want nothing to do with no one not his aunts his mom nothing .. I want to block all his family on my platforms now .. is that wrong ? I don’t know how to go about it when approached I have such a temper and choose to ignore for that reason aka cutting them off as I do my own. I just want to protect my peace my family but I don’t want to tear me and my partner apart by alienating him from his own… please any advise .. ( A photo of my Bubby when he was younger with a quote that hit me dearly )