Hypothetical

Poll time! Would you stay with your (high school sweethearts) husband of more than 10 years that you tolerate most of the time but /some/ of the time he is actually vile- calls you names, throws insults at you and is just nasty... if he is going to have a salary of more than $350k. He tells you that you can be a stay at home to your 3 kids and be able to afford anything your kids could possibly want and have anything that you could want as well. Or would you leave knowing that it is abuse, manipulation, and you deserve to be happy all the time NOT tip toeing and waiting for the next blow up...