To move or not to move

Me and my husband have been separated for 2 years. This summer we were both on agreement to divorce. We ended up not divorcing and deciding to work on our marriage. We do have a 3 year old. He moved away to another state and I’m still in the home state. I moved in with my parents . Now since August he’s been asking that we come up to where he is. It’s his home state . The issue is I don’t want to move to that state . It’s up north & I have no family. His family were living in the same state as me but decided to move back to the same state he is in back in February of this year. I’m not on good terms with my in laws . So I have no desire to come around let alone speak with them. I’m just not there. Well long story short . He was finding a place and ended up getting the call today he’s approved. So now he’s telling me on MONDAY he’ll be here to come get me and our daughter. I’m extremely close to my family . My dad has been sick for years and my mom is getting older. I’m the oldest , my sister has moved away for work going on 4 years now she lives 4 hours away. My brother still lives at home he’s 24 and is a music teacher . Again , I’m very very close to my family and have the most gut wrenching anxiety behind this. I guess I’m saying all this because I’m scared and never lived out of state and been away from my entire family. Anybody with a similar background been through this ? I could use some encouraging words right about now.