Jewish husband vs Catholic family

My husband and I both grew up catholic. My husband however chose to convert to Judaism. My family was not happy about it. He has been working with a rabbi for a long time. We don't force anything on our children. They'll decide what they want to do. I also don't take my kids to a Catholic church. We go to non denominational churches just because it's what I'm more comfortable with. My families relationship with my husband has gotten more tense when they found out years ago he participated in a project where they were exposing the CSA that goes on within the Catholic church. All my husband did was tell his CSA story that happened within the church and how he was forced to forgive and nothing got reported. This was several years ago and my family just found out about it. They weren't pleased and my husband stands by his decision. He told his story. Multiple people did and he has that right which I agree. We have tried to be a family but they have a huge problem with my husband's conversion to Judaism. I have made sure that I was bringing food to Thanksgiving that he could eat. So food that was kosher. My mom always puts bacon in the turkey so I had a smaller turkey that I made sure was kosher. we made that he could eat and for some reason, I believe it was intentional, my grandparents added bacon to the turkey I made. They did things like this before where we will bring kosher food and they do something to make it not kosher anymore. The most recent thing they've done is when my kids were over their home they came back and told me that their grandparents told them that the people daddy is joining killed Jesus and to love their daddy but understand he's letting Satan lead him to bad people. I called my parents and went off. They are now saying neither me, my husband, or the children are welcome for Christmas. I feel sad but I'll make this the best Christmas ever. Still I'm just disappointed things have come to this with my family. I'm feeling it may be time to go N/C