Am I overthinking ?
My boyfriend he’s 31, I’m 24.
he would come over spend a night at my house. But every morning he would have to leave the house at 7am. He has to literally take his kids to school. And take other people kids to school. And pick everyone up for work.
Basically he’s the only reliable car so everyone counts on him.
He would come over Drunk.
Idk how much he’ll drink but I know when he come he’s drunk and will pass out.
I’ll wake him up 30 minutes before, I’ll even wake up him at 7. I’ll even continue try to wake him up atleast 15 minutes after 7.
But he won’t budge. He would probably adjust hisself to get under the cover. I’ll catch him and tell him “you have to get up” , he’ll sleep thru the alarm.
It just won’t work.
I’ll fall back to sleep . Then he’ll wake up in a frantic. All his babymomas cussing him out. Nobody made it to school , or somebody want they money back cause they had to take a Lyft. I be feeling bad. I be trying to wake him up.
I’ll kinda feel bad or maybe secondhand embarrassment , cause I would try to wake him up. Then he probably be looking at me sideways , like “why you ain’t wake me up” in his head, I do try to wake him up. But I don’t go the extreme , turning on lights , shaking him , being loud , pouring water on you.
Any ideas or advice, should I ignore it . Am I overthinking
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