Does this sound like what he meant?

My boyfriend of 10 years and I have practically a dead bedroom. Several years ago he came out to me about a porn addiction and I kept finding photos of naked pornstars saved to his phone. Now he’s having erectile dysfunction likely due to antidepressants/medication. We are in our mid 20s. I’m usually the one who initiates and lately he hasn’t been able to get a boner at all. I know I shouldn’t take it personally but I do. I feel really undesired.

Today he made a random comment out of nowhere “remember when you used to do Kegels?” There was no context at all and because I’m already feeling unattractive and unwanted I took this to mean he was hinting around that I need to do Kegels again to tighten up. I don’t know if I am overthinking/overreacting. Does this sound like this was what he meant?