My boyfriend is willing to break up with me because other people want to watch my baby sooner than I’m comfortable with.

My boyfriend and I have a beautiful 6 month old baby girl. He always sets up dates for her to be babysat and never asks me for my input he just plans behind my back and tells me at the last minute. When he lets other babysit it’s for 6+ hours at a time to make the babysitter happy apposed to what time frame would make me feel more comfortable. His mom has seizures and has been rushing me to let her babysit and spend the night since my baby was two weeks old. I don’t feel comfortable letting her stay the night there or even being over there by here because his mom likes to babysit 4+ kids at a time and I’m worried she won’t pay close enough attention and she wants to co sleep with my baby. My boyfriend also has one off his high school friend’s mother babysit her and he was going her to babysit on New Year’s eve past 9 pm and we live in a state where shooting on new years is very popular. That situation caused an argument. Now the situation is that by baby has her first cold and he is so embarrassed to reschedule with his friend’s mom and met our baby get her rest in feel better that he’s willing to break up for it. He’s the one who got her sick in the first place. I don’t understand what’s so wrong about wanted to take care of my own sick baby and prioritize her health over someone else’s time spent with her. I had to take the baby over to my mom’s house with me because he wouldn’t take no for an answer and now he wants to break up became it.