Am I doing too much?

I’ve been in a “situationship” with this guy for a couple years. Lately he gives me shit about my communication skills every chance he gets. I’ve asked him if he wants to end it then and says no but then just complains. I feel like the reality is that he wants to be overly communicated with while he chooses what he communicates, if that makes sense. Like he wants me to tell him random updates about what I do every day. He doesn’t want to have to ask, he just wants me to tell him. Or if I’m with my friends, he wants to know who they are, where I met them, how old they are, etc. But he doesn’t tell me things. Like he’ll go to the gym with his friends and not tell me. He went to a work meeting and didn’t tell me. He had a work schedule change and didn’t tell me. If I did stuff like that, I know he’d be upset. Another communication issue HE’S had lately is that he leaves me on open if he doesn’t want to talk about something. But then when I try to keep talking, he says I “won’t leave him alone”. He’s done it the past couple days and he said “the past couple days have been bad, idk what I want rn”. 😐 Tonight he’s started to leave me on delivered too. I wouldn’t care AT ALL if it wasn’t for the fact that I feel like we have insanely unfair double standards. I honestly want to end it over this. I already told him I’m done talking tonight.