Is this normal in relationships?

My boyfriend and I have been together 7 years, he doesn’t ask how work was when I come home, I was sick recently ( stuck in bed violently ill and never once did he check on me, ask to care for our child so I could rest) and, I work 13 hour days, when I get home he plays on his games until 12-1am and I normally put our child to bed alone. He stays with family sometimes during the day when I work, and they end up watching our child because he sits on the phone or brings games to play. He does work during the week, 5 hours a day. I don’t know what to do anymore.