How can you get it through your adult daughter's brain that she's the problem

My adult daughter does the dumbest stuff and I honestly feel it's all for attention. She got online and said how all n words are black but not all black people are n words and if you're black and that offends you then you're an n word. Then she's shocked when she got fired. Then said she was being harassed just because people were commenting boo🍅🍅🍅 on her stuff.

She's now upset because she's single and how guys ghost her. That may have something to do with when a guy took her out on a date they went to Chili's or something and she whipped out her camera and pointed it at the guy saying "Ooh. Look what he's doing. I don't go to Chili's for a first date. Ladies have standards." Then got upset that she got ripped apart in the comments in the comments because people don't like snoody people like that.

She deleted her tiktok then made another and now she's on Instagram just being ridiculous and offensive and doubling down when she gets hate. She got a death threat because on her Instagram live she talked about waking a guy up from his sleep by fingering his butt and that he got mad but he was hard so he much be gay. Now she's mad people are calling her a rapist and she's absolutely ridiculous.

Yeah my daughter probably needs some help. No she won't get it What do I say anymore when she complains to me? I've tried everything but she continues to do what she wants and then act surprised when it gets her hate. And idk why she's doing this. She doesn't get a lot of views. The most she ever got was like 50k views which isn't anything on tiktok. I don't know what else to do